7 Common Mistakes
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Brazilian Jiu Jitsu can be life-changing for children, but parents can unknowingly make the journey harder than it needs to be.
1. Buying a Gi That's Too Big
Many parents purchase a size larger hoping their child will grow into it.
A small amount of growth room is helpful, but an oversized Gi can make training uncomfortable.
Related link - Kids Sizing Guide
2. Expecting Immediate Progress
BJJ is a long-term skill.
Focus on consistency rather than quick results.
Related link - Kids BJJ Belt System Explained
3. Comparing Children
Every child develops at a different pace.
Progress should be measured against where they started.
4. Putting Too Much Pressure on Competitions
Competition should be about learning, not just medals.
5. Training Too Much Too Soon
Balance is important.
Children still need time for school, family and other activities.
6. Missing Classes Frequently
Regular attendance builds skills and confidence.
7. Focusing Only on Wins
The biggest success is personal development.
BJJ teaches:
- Discipline
- Respect
- Confidence
- Problem-solving
Final Thoughts
The best thing a parent can do is support the process and celebrate improvement.